GET TO KNOW PARENTS??

How do i understand my parents?? The issue no one talks about, on how to understand your own parent. Now that I'm around that age where i wont say i fully understand my parents but i have opinions on what they say. The issue here is they don't understand you fully and they still treat you as kid ??? why ??? They tell you to take full responsibility for your own actions but when you do, they wont respect it, why ??? Does there ego get hurt or like what? its so hard to understand your own parents when you are at the age where you are ending your teenage years and entering your adulthood phase but the age isn't serious for your parents or for the society, but it is for you. Like how tf am i supposed to behave??? All they do is compare you with random ass kid who they don't even know,  just because he or she is listening to their parents, you also have to listen to your parents even if they are wrong. NO I DONT WANNA BE LIKE A RANDOM ASS KID, I have my own opinions and thoughts which i suppose should be respected by them but as we know they DON'T, which is the worst part like its just annoying, like how they don't respect and care about your opinions and thoughts cause apparently YOU ARE JUST A KID.

ASIAN parents are the worst tbh they want you to give them respect but THEY WON'T GIVE U THE SAME. Like wtf ???? How the hell is this fair ????